ALEXANDRIA'S ALCHEMY
ALEXANDRIA'S ALCHEMY
"True connections arise from forming bonds and sharing experiences, yet the digital world has somewhat tainted our ability to connect authentically in person."
I want to start by emphasizing that we are all interconnected. As parts of a greater whole, we originate from a single divine source. However, from a third-dimensional perspective, we navigate different universal laws that create the illusion of separateness.
It’s important to remember the essence of connection. True connections arise from forming bonds and sharing experiences. Yet, I believe the digital world has somewhat tainted our ability to connect authentically in person. Many interactions take place in a superficial realm—social media. We often broadcast our daily lives, leading others to think they know us intimately. While that kind of attention can be flattering, it can also be bewildering. I frequently encounter people who believe they have me all figured out based on my posts, which feels ignorant and a bit self-righteous. We forget that these two-dimensional portrayals of ourselves online are just that—flat and incomplete.
This is why I’ve become less engaged with social media. It offers a glimpse into lives that I don’t necessarily need to see. If someone is meant to be in my life, they will be present, or our paths will cross. Otherwise, I prefer not to hold the notion of them in my consciousness unless there’s a reason.
We often overlook the energetic consequences of being accessible online. The projections—adoration, envy, and everything in between—come from both familiar and unfamiliar sources. Recently, I’ve had numerous encounters with people who know my name, yet I have no idea who they are. Individuals I’ve met once even ask if I’ve deleted my social media. Honestly, unless I’ve been in your recent messages, how would you know that my Instagram is gone?
Social media can also make us forget how long it’s been since we’ve seen our friends and family. I was shocked to realize that it had been five years since I last visited my mother’s side of the family. Sure, I’ve seen their faces on Facebook or during occasional family Zoom calls, but five years!
In summary, social media creates a false sense of familiarity that can lead us to neglect real friendships. It gives others the impression they have a connection with us when they don’t. Let’s focus on connecting in real life. Take a break from the virtual space and see who emerges in your reality. Grab coffee with someone you’ve met briefly and get to know them beyond their online persona. Let’s prioritize real-life connections!
"Social media creates a false sense of familiarity that can lead us to neglect real friendships, giving others the impression they have a connection with us when they don’t."
In today’s digital age, it’s easy to feel connected yet remain distant. To foster deeper, more meaningful relationships beyond social media, consider these practical steps:
Schedule Regular Meetups: Make time to meet friends or family for coffee, lunch, or a walk. Aim for at least once a month.
Engage in Activities Together: Join a local club, take a class, or participate in community events to bond over shared interests.
Be Present: When spending time with someone, put away your phone and give them your full attention.
Ask Open-Ended Questions: Encourage deeper conversations by asking questions that require more than a yes or no answer. For example, “What’s been inspiring you lately?”
Send Handwritten Notes: A simple thank-you note or a thoughtful message can mean a lot and show you care.
Compliment and Recognize: Acknowledge your friends’ achievements and qualities outside of online comments. This reinforces your bond and shows you value them.
Share Your Thoughts and Feelings: Open up about your experiences, challenges, and dreams. Vulnerability can deepen trust and connection.
Encourage Others to Share: Create a safe space for your friends to express themselves without judgment.
Set Boundaries: Designate specific times for checking social media to avoid it taking over your life.
Unfollow or Mute: Reduce the noise by unfollowing accounts that don’t contribute positively to your life, allowing you to focus on real-world relationships.
Join Groups with Shared Interests: Look for book clubs, sports teams, or hobby groups where you can meet new people and build connections.
Follow Through on Plans: If you make plans to meet someone, stick to them. Reliability builds trust and shows that you value the relationship.
Check-In Regularly: A simple message to see how someone is doing can go a long way in maintaining connections.
Start Regular Gatherings: Whether it’s a monthly game night or an annual camping trip, traditions help create lasting memories and deepen bonds.
Celebrate Milestones Together: Acknowledge birthdays, promotions, or personal achievements with small celebrations or gestures.
"True connections arise from forming bonds and sharing experiences, yet the digital world has somewhat tainted our ability to connect authentically in person."
I want to start by emphasizing that we are all interconnected. As parts of a greater whole, we originate from a single divine source. However, from a third-dimensional perspective, we navigate different universal laws that create the illusion of separateness.
It’s important to remember the essence of connection. True connections arise from forming bonds and sharing experiences. Yet, I believe the digital world has somewhat tainted our ability to connect authentically in person. Many interactions take place in a superficial realm—social media. We often broadcast our daily lives, leading others to think they know us intimately. While that kind of attention can be flattering, it can also be bewildering. I frequently encounter people who believe they have me all figured out based on my posts, which feels ignorant and a bit self-righteous. We forget that these two-dimensional portrayals of ourselves online are just that—flat and incomplete.
This is why I’ve become less engaged with social media. It offers a glimpse into lives that I don’t necessarily need to see. If someone is meant to be in my life, they will be present, or our paths will cross. Otherwise, I prefer not to hold the notion of them in my consciousness unless there’s a reason.
We often overlook the energetic consequences of being accessible online. The projections—adoration, envy, and everything in between—come from both familiar and unfamiliar sources. Recently, I’ve had numerous encounters with people who know my name, yet I have no idea who they are. Individuals I’ve met once even ask if I’ve deleted my social media. Honestly, unless I’ve been in your recent messages, how would you know that my Instagram is gone?
Social media can also make us forget how long it’s been since we’ve seen our friends and family. I was shocked to realize that it had been five years since I last visited my mother’s side of the family. Sure, I’ve seen their faces on Facebook or during occasional family Zoom calls, but five years!
In summary, social media creates a false sense of familiarity that can lead us to neglect real friendships. It gives others the impression they have a connection with us when they don’t. Let’s focus on connecting in real life. Take a break from the virtual space and see who emerges in your reality. Grab coffee with someone you’ve met briefly and get to know them beyond their online persona. Let’s prioritize real-life connections!
"Social media creates a false sense of familiarity that can lead us to neglect real friendships, giving others the impression they have a connection with us when they don’t."
In today’s digital age, it’s easy to feel connected yet remain distant. To foster deeper, more meaningful relationships beyond social media, consider these practical steps:
Schedule Regular Meetups: Make time to meet friends or family for coffee, lunch, or a walk. Aim for at least once a month.
Engage in Activities Together: Join a local club, take a class, or participate in community events to bond over shared interests.
Be Present: When spending time with someone, put away your phone and give them your full attention.
Ask Open-Ended Questions: Encourage deeper conversations by asking questions that require more than a yes or no answer. For example, “What’s been inspiring you lately?”
Send Handwritten Notes: A simple thank-you note or a thoughtful message can mean a lot and show you care.
Compliment and Recognize: Acknowledge your friends’ achievements and qualities outside of online comments. This reinforces your bond and shows you value them.
Share Your Thoughts and Feelings: Open up about your experiences, challenges, and dreams. Vulnerability can deepen trust and connection.
Encourage Others to Share: Create a safe space for your friends to express themselves without judgment.
Set Boundaries: Designate specific times for checking social media to avoid it taking over your life.
Unfollow or Mute: Reduce the noise by unfollowing accounts that don’t contribute positively to your life, allowing you to focus on real-world relationships.
Join Groups with Shared Interests: Look for book clubs, sports teams, or hobby groups where you can meet new people and build connections.
Follow Through on Plans: If you make plans to meet someone, stick to them. Reliability builds trust and shows that you value the relationship.
Check-In Regularly: A simple message to see how someone is doing can go a long way in maintaining connections.
Start Regular Gatherings: Whether it’s a monthly game night or an annual camping trip, traditions help create lasting memories and deepen bonds.
Celebrate Milestones Together: Acknowledge birthdays, promotions, or personal achievements with small celebrations or gestures.