ALEXANDRIA'S ALCHEMY
ALEXANDRIA'S ALCHEMY
“The truth is that every situation is a mirror reflecting your own state of being. If you’re attracting people who don’t align with your vibrational frequency, it’s essential to look inward.”
In our interactions and relationships, it’s easy to fall into the trap of resentment, control, and ill intent. Online, I often see people lamenting about how others are “missing out” or suffering due to perceived slights or unmet expectations. This mindset often stems from a desire for control.
For example, I’ve seen women online criticize a man’s character because he doesn’t text her every day before a first date or show overt interest. This kind of disparagement reveals a deeper issue: a desire for control and a lack of acceptance that others may not meet our expectations or fit into our desired narrative.
I’ve been there myself, feeling resentful when I couldn’t control a situation or make someone behave as I wanted. But through experience, I’ve learned that harboring ill will and frustration doesn’t help anyone or anything. It only creates negativity and blocks the flow of positive energy in your life.
“Resentment and ill will only cloud your energy. The people and circumstances that are meant for you will find their way into your life. When a situation or relationship is no longer meant for you, the universe will provide signs to move you forward.”
The truth is that every situation is a mirror reflecting your own state of being. If you’re attracting people who don’t align with your vibrational frequency, it’s essential to look inward. Not everyone will immediately be obsessed with you, and that’s perfectly okay. You aren’t meant to be everyone’s person, and not everyone who appears superficially valuable will play a significant role in your story.
In reality, those who are meant to be in your life will stick around until their role in your journey is complete. It’s important to be like water—flowing and adapting to life’s changes rather than remaining stagnant in places or relationships that no longer serve you. Stagnation can muddy your energy and hinder your growth.
Resentment and ill will only cloud your energy. The people and circumstances that are meant for you will find their way into your life. When a situation or relationship is no longer meant for you, the universe will provide signs to move you forward. These signs will guide you to new destinations and introduce you to people, places, and experiences that align with your next stage of growth.
Forcing connections with individuals who belong to your past or who don’t fit into your current story can lead to frustration and resentment. Instead, focus on releasing, forgiving, and flowing with the natural course of your journey. Trust that the right people and circumstances will come to you as you continue to evolve.
In summary: release control, forgive past grievances, and allow yourself to flow with life’s currents. By doing so, you will create space for the right experiences and connections to enter your life, supporting your ongoing transformation and growth.
“In reality, those who are meant to be in your life will stick around until their role in your journey is complete. It’s important to be like water—flowing and adapting to life’s changes rather than remaining stagnant in places or relationships that no longer serve you.”
I encourage you to journal about your past relationships—both romantic and platonic—where you may have harbored resentment or tried to control. Reflect on each experience, comparing them to uncover underlying fears or patterns that influenced your reactions.
Consider these tips:
Detail Each Relationship: Write about the key events and your feelings in each relationship.
Identify Resentment and Control: Note instances where you felt resentment or tried to control the situation.
Explore Underlying Fears: Reflect on what fears or insecurities may have driven your behavior.
Once you’ve journaled about each relationship, use the insights to identify recurring themes and outcomes.
“The truth is that every situation is a mirror reflecting your own state of being. If you’re attracting people who don’t align with your vibrational frequency, it’s essential to look inward.”
In our interactions and relationships, it’s easy to fall into the trap of resentment, control, and ill intent. Online, I often see people lamenting about how others are “missing out” or suffering due to perceived slights or unmet expectations. This mindset often stems from a desire for control.
For example, I’ve seen women online criticize a man’s character because he doesn’t text her every day before a first date or show overt interest. This kind of disparagement reveals a deeper issue: a desire for control and a lack of acceptance that others may not meet our expectations or fit into our desired narrative.
I’ve been there myself, feeling resentful when I couldn’t control a situation or make someone behave as I wanted. But through experience, I’ve learned that harboring ill will and frustration doesn’t help anyone or anything. It only creates negativity and blocks the flow of positive energy in your life.
“Resentment and ill will only cloud your energy. The people and circumstances that are meant for you will find their way into your life. When a situation or relationship is no longer meant for you, the universe will provide signs to move you forward.”
The truth is that every situation is a mirror reflecting your own state of being. If you’re attracting people who don’t align with your vibrational frequency, it’s essential to look inward. Not everyone will immediately be obsessed with you, and that’s perfectly okay. You aren’t meant to be everyone’s person, and not everyone who appears superficially valuable will play a significant role in your story.
In reality, those who are meant to be in your life will stick around until their role in your journey is complete. It’s important to be like water—flowing and adapting to life’s changes rather than remaining stagnant in places or relationships that no longer serve you. Stagnation can muddy your energy and hinder your growth.
Resentment and ill will only cloud your energy. The people and circumstances that are meant for you will find their way into your life. When a situation or relationship is no longer meant for you, the universe will provide signs to move you forward. These signs will guide you to new destinations and introduce you to people, places, and experiences that align with your next stage of growth.
Forcing connections with individuals who belong to your past or who don’t fit into your current story can lead to frustration and resentment. Instead, focus on releasing, forgiving, and flowing with the natural course of your journey. Trust that the right people and circumstances will come to you as you continue to evolve.
In summary: release control, forgive past grievances, and allow yourself to flow with life’s currents. By doing so, you will create space for the right experiences and connections to enter your life, supporting your ongoing transformation and growth.
“In reality, those who are meant to be in your life will stick around until their role in your journey is complete. It’s important to be like water—flowing and adapting to life’s changes rather than remaining stagnant in places or relationships that no longer serve you.”
I encourage you to journal about your past relationships—both romantic and platonic—where you may have harbored resentment or tried to control. Reflect on each experience, comparing them to uncover underlying fears or patterns that influenced your reactions.
Consider these tips:
Detail Each Relationship: Write about the key events and your feelings in each relationship.
Identify Resentment and Control: Note instances where you felt resentment or tried to control the situation.
Explore Underlying Fears: Reflect on what fears or insecurities may have driven your behavior.
Once you’ve journaled about each relationship, use the insights to identify recurring themes and outcomes.