To truly gauge your level of goddesshood, consider the support you receive. When a woman embodies her divine feminine energy, she is a goddess. What do people do for goddesses? They give offerings—time, compliments, love, and resources. This reflects your own goddess nature. Women in their divine essence naturally attract those who wish to support and uplift them, both men and women devoted to your growth and comfort.

I’ve heard women joking about how good their “stuff” is, yet they lack genuine support from admirers. This mismatch reveals a deeper truth: the expectation of role reversal—where women give everything to their partners—is outdated and rooted in patriarchal norms. The natural order favors the feminine as receivers. Women are often smaller and more delicate, not because they are lesser, but because they are meant to be nurtured while men, typically larger and stronger, are designed to provide.

As you embrace your journey of becoming, remember to embrace your role as a receiver. Many women struggle with receiving, resulting in a lack of true devotees and instead attracting takers who see them as workers. This leads to an unsatisfactory life.

My own life flourishes because I embrace receiving. Men in my life—whether romantic or platonic—want to give and support me. They are drawn to my essence and feel compelled to show their appreciation. I’ve had colleagues share how I’ve helped them achieve great success (like $5M per week when I was on their project team), and they express a desire to support me in return (like one former colleague who recently texted me that they can’t wait to write me checks every year). My partner often talks about how excited he is to provide for me, saying he can’t wait to buy my G-Wagon.

To cultivate this dynamic, it’s crucial to stop being a doormat. Don’t let others walk over you. Recognize your worth and set boundaries. As a consultant and creative, I receive offerings for my work, but I do so while maintaining my goddess status. Say no when necessary and establish what is beneath you; you’ll be amazed at how your life transforms.

Men who embody their king or emperor energy find joy in making your life special because you inspire them. They seek access to your divine essence, which fuels their purpose. This connection is powerful, and while men may desire intimacy, it’s ultimately about tapping into that creative energy. However, to create a balanced exchange, you must also receive, as people often undervalue what comes too easily.

In summary, align your mindset with your worth. Don’t let anyone convince you that you don’t deserve the best. You are worthy of everything!