On Friday, I attended a semi-private event for a Top Chef judge with an acquaintance I hadn’t seen since last year. It was such a great time! You know I always talk about being a Beacon of Light and having witnesses. She definitely was a witness to these crazy synchronicities.

During our conversation, I mentioned my blog—not by name—but shared a few things about it. She asked how it’s been being off social media. I explained my reasons and told her about an experience I had at another event. A girl came up to me—without asking my name or anything—and said, “I saw you walk in. You’re so pretty. I was like, I need to get her Instagram!” Not my name. Not even “hi.” Just straight to Instagram. I thought it was funny but also really interesting. I’ve noticed that when I first meet people, they usually ask for my Instagram. When I tell them I’m not on there, they’re always shocked and tell me I need to get on it. So I brought that up, too.

We also got into dating, and I told her how I keep running into people from dating shows I watch. Just this past week, I met someone from Pop the Balloon and another from Ready to Love—two of my favorites. This will be relevant later…

I mentioned how I had been going through old blog entries from almost ten years ago earlier that day, and how the hors d’oeuvres at the event reminded me of a post I wrote back then. I noted that I probably shouldn’t mix too many food items at once, because it instantly brought that memory back. In that blog, I talked about attending a private event for Ray J and Kendra Wilkinson. I ended up sick the next day after eating the sushi they were passing around.

Then, during that same conversation, she asked if I’d ever read The Alchemist. I laughed and told her I’ve read it four times since I first picked it up nearly a decade ago. It felt so aligned, especially since my blog is literally called Alexandria’s Alchemy.

But the synchronicities didn’t stop there.

Not long after, THE SAME GIRL I MENTIONED—the one who asked for my Instagram before even asking my name—WALKS IN. And guess who she’s with? A woman who was ON Ready to Love. I told my friend about the coincidence, and she thought it was wild since we had just been talking about both of those things. I told her my manifestations are speeding up, and the synchronicities lately have been insane.

Then, later that night, I was scrolling TikTok and guess who pops up? Kendra Wilkinson—LMAO—twerking to a Too Short song. In that same blog post I’d read earlier, I mentioned how Too Short was at her party as well. And then Ray J shows up on my feed, too. He’s on the Millennial Tour now, so I’m not totally surprised, but still. The Kendra one? So random. I didn’t search her up or anything—I’d just read that old blog on my laptop earlier.